Every so often, I hear people say “Life is good. I can’t complain.” I wonder why they would use “can’t complain” as a baseline to gauge their states of being. It feels like they don’t want more for fear of disappointment.
For more good to come to us, we don’t want to use “no” losses, illnesses, or conflicts as a reference point. This indicates the back of our mind is still focusing on all that we don’t want. We are waiting for the other shoe to drop.
With such anxiety in the backdrop, we can’t move our lives from good to great. It doesn’t matter if we think positively, collect inspiration and repeat affirmations daily, the nervous system is not settled enough for us to receive the good.
When we practice feeling good no matter what, we relax and will see situations through new lens, not rose-colored glasses. We become more compassionate and accepting, and kindness takes a higher priority than being right.
This softening of our stance also means we stop resisting the happenings in life. We then become a vibrational match for more good that we don’t even know is possible.
How do we feel good when we spend most of our time striving for or fighting against something? Overcoming challenges and persevering have served us in many ways, but this orientation has the energy of pushing against something.
The support from the Universe is always available. If we focus on overcoming or persevering, we can block ourselves from receiving the infinite abundance from the Universe.
Many of us have learned to be grateful, and we feel selfish, guilty or greedy for desiring more good in our lives. So we settle for less. This line of reasoning may come from the part of us that feels unworthy.
Feeling guilty or greedy and being grateful is like having one foot on the brake and one foot on the gas. This incongruence keeps many in perpetual pursuits. True fulfillment does not happen if we are not vibrationally congruent.
When we are vibrationally congruent, we can be grateful and desire more good in our lives. When we are able to receive more, we are in a better position to support those in need.
On June 10, I will share how we can be better receivers. We will also explore how we can attune our mind so that we can feel good no matter what. This sets the stage for creating the life we love living.
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